The Final Fifteen Pounds

Walk We have all heard that walking helps us lose weight. Yes, there are other great ways, but walking can work for virtually anyone. When my #weightlossjourney began about a year and a half ago, I had a coach helping me. And he told me something I didn't want to hear. He told me that I had to exercise. I like to exercise, so that wasn't the problem, but I have an issue. I tend to injure myself when I workout--especially when I am lifting something.  But then, I thought about this. I can walk. I can walk like crazy. I walk in the heat (well hydrated). I walk in the freezing cold. I can walk in the daytime. I can walk at night.  Using a bouncer, I can even "walk" in my living room. And that's what I did. And I lost 40 pounds. Love it. I would be walking around the track at the college and it was so cold that my fingers cried. But about 20 minutes in, I didn't care. About 30 minutes in, every care in the world would just drop right down on the tr...

Sometimes it feels like there's no rhyme or reason to the crazy baloney I do. Do you feel like that? So last night, I go home and eat a regular, modest dinner. And then.... on comes the t.v. and out come the peanuts. The salty ones in the shell.  And I eat.  I pay no attention to how many. And here's the deal: I'm not hungry. I think I've been doing a lot of this. And it's not about check this food on and check this food off.   It's about feeling anxious, or conflicted.  I'm going to say it again just so I can hear myself say it. I want to be 173.  That's the goal. Today 191.  I am struggling getting down to my comfortable 188. Here's what I'm going to do about it. Sit down with a sheet of paper and write stuff out. That was a list of one on purpose. That's the one thing I'm going to do.  I'll get back to you with what comes from it.

When something isn't working, it doesn't always mean trash it. So after battling hunger last week, and that setting me up for eating the wrong things at the wrong time, and after listening to guys like the Fat Burning Man, I decided to up the fat and protein content of my smoothie.  This morning I began drinking a smoothie with coconut oil and raw farm fresh free range chicken eggs added. It definitely kept me satiated until lunch time! Yes! I would still like to drink more water during the day. But there's a big but. It can be hard for me to get to the restroom between 11:30 and 3:00.  So I'm thinking through that.  I believe more water will help. So yes, I do feel better. In a week or so, I'll know if the tweaks are impacting my weight loss. How to tweak it?  Remember that the diet is an experiment. It's okay to try different things to get it to work. Not everything works the same way for everyone else, but there are basics that probably ...

When you write about something, you learn.  I have formed a habit, which is pretty much out in the open for you to read. It's where I ask two questions: "What did I do that worked? And, What could I have done better?" I'm beginning to think that I need to be more critical, in a good way, of myself. I don't mean calling myself names.  I mean, dig into every area where I can improve. I don't necessarily think I need to share ALL of that with you. You get the lion's share anyway. But I do need to cut deeper. Today, I drank half a soda. That's after a week of no soda. It's a Saturday soda. Why? Because my lunch wasn't well planned and I ended up eating food that makes me tired. What I did well was ate a good breakfast. Green smoothie.  Gonna work on making more hefty though. Needs more oomph.  I'll get back to you on that as I experiment with it all. My plan is to write every day about it. To narrow my focus until I find the...

What a day... I just wanted to eat.  Working through it....  Here's the win: no doughnuts. Everyday, on the loudspeaker, there was an announcement - "doughnuts on Friday in the conference room." I didn't so much as lift the box to see if there were some healthy bear claws hiding in the box. That's a win. Not even a sniff sample. Ate apples -- win. Ate my salad -- win. But there's an oops - Back at the oops in a minute. Didn't eat any candy on my way to tutoring assignment. Found a place with 50 cent (not the rapper) ice-tea, unsweetened. Win. Confession: I like to eat peanut M & Ms before I tutor. It gives me that lift I need to make it through the two hour tutoring session. But the iced tea did the trick. And oh yeah, I didn't drink any soda. Doesn't seem like a big deal today, but a week ago, that was huge.  What I could have done better: eat more protein or fat at breakfast. I'm realizing that I need to change the ...

There it is, right in front of you, sweet and sultry, saying here I am.  What to do?  The STAAR test in Texas is our state mandated, big-deal test. And we just spent Tuesday and Wednesday doing it. Even Monday was affected. Teachers are spent. Kids are restless. And admin is tired and appreciative of the hard work that teachers have put in. And what is the best way to show your appreciation? Bring on the doughnuts! It really is a nice thing to do. But for the teacher who is trying to lose weight, especially this one, it's a trap. Because I feel like I deserve it.  Is that sweet hole what I really want? I know it's not what I need. Do I really want to dump sugar, processed white flour and fat into my stomach? I don't. But it tastes so good.  But when I'm trying to lose weight, here's what happens (and this is what happened with Coke and me recently): it resets your body's expectations. It's something that happens in the brain. Now, the br...

Do you ever feel toxic? I mean physically. Like you got junk floating around in your body that makes your blood filters work overtime?  I do. And I'd rather not. And I have found myself listening (to podcasts) to Dave Asprey of the Bulletproof products and like a lot of what he says.  So I started looking at the Bulletproof Diet road map to see if I could make changes that would bring down my toxic intake and get me to lose weight faster. Good high quality stuff mostly. But dang it looks expensive for this single-income teacher with five boys in the house. There are lots of proprietary buy-from-Bulletproof-items on the menu. And I would bet that they are very good products. And I'm assuming  very expensive.  And yes I totally get the point that if you don't pay for quality now, you end up paying a Dr. bill later. The diet also features lots of grass-fed fat and protein sources. And we know that these are good for you.  But I need to figure out ho...

You ever stayed away from the fattening food for days and then had that quick WANT, that - "Oooo gotta have it NOW!" I had that today. I wanted a Coke. It came at me quickly. Like a stab in the heart out of nowhere.  I didn't give in, and it went away. The feeling really didn't last long. Somehow I was able to get my wits about me and remember that a soda bottle was the last thing I needed in my hand. I wanted it, but I steered away.  That makes four days. Eventually I'll stop counting.  Had enough of that Coke-lust eating my lunch. It's hard to think back and figure out how you get to the place where things go bad. But it is important. And it's crucial that you remember how bad you feel when you actually drink the sugar water (or whatever).  Okay, of course I don't feel bad right when I drink it; I feel bad later. That sick feeling from too much sugar and salt and caffeine all at once like a bomb in the belly. Also the mental pa...

Ever tried to quit a habit that was so hard to stop it made you scream? I'm trying.  The latest scoreboard: Weekend = No soda. Win Monday = No soda. Win. Win. And there are good reasons why it started to work. I casually read diet and nutrition stuff. I listen to podcasts like Fat Burning Man , Half Size Me  (it's kinda girly but I still get a lot out of it), and Bulletproof Radio . And they don't all agree with each other on the best ways to lose weight.  But one thing they all agree on (the blogs, the podcasts, and the books) is that drinking sugar is really bad for us. It's starting to sink in. And so I haven't imbibed over the last three days.  But I did every day last week. Half a soda each day. Dang it.  And my weight isn't budging down. Not an ounce. And I mean I posted and everything about how to start a new habit in one day . Remember that? And I believe it. But I didn't have enough foundation in place to make it wo...

One of the ways weight loss derailleurs get us, is that we don't think it through. Our belly is thinking. Not our minds. Or possibly our worries are blurring our focus.  Focus: I wanna weigh 173. This week: What I did well - ate more apples. Didn't eat candy or doughnuts. What I didn't do well - drank 1/2 a soda every weekday. Hoping that getting back on green smoothies will take that craving away from me. So I'm noticing something. I'm battling a huge headache everyday. I don't realize it's there until my aggravation has built up to the point where every little tap on a desk is bugging me. I believe the headache is allergy related. The rains in Texas have been unrelenting this year. So Spring is powerful.  This has caught me by surprise.  Here's my plan for coping with the daily headache. Reduce caffeine intake.  Eat inflammation reducing foods.  Obviously the soda has to go. Whole foods become primary. Processed foods need to fade...

Sometimes it's important to stick with habits that you know work, not look for some new thing.  So a few weeks ago, I stopped drinking green smoothies for breakfast. Why?  Because our blender broke. It wasn't the long-run plan.  Yesterday, I drank my first green smoothie in weeks and was so happy.  The green smoothie is packed with mega nutrients per cubic inch. If you have never had one I very much recommend you try. The one con is the blender. You need a high quality blender. We use the Vita-mix. They are pricey.  By the way, they are a great company that stands by their product. We are a large family with two adults and five boys. The Vita-mix is used more than any appliance in the kitchen. We have used ours roughly for more than a decade. We got a good deal from the company on a rebuilt model.  And we are back in business. Here's how you do a great green smoothie : start with a great blender use excellent greens - mo...

Wow. Tuesday... Good day. Took a day I wasn't too thrilled about doing due to a sleepless night and turned it oh so nice. #TLAP Teach Like a Pirate So Monday night, I planned and "attended" the #TLAP Twitter chat. If you haven't done a chat before, TLAP ( Teach Like a Pirate ) is a great one to get you started. It starts at 8 PM central on Monday nights (I'll let you work out the other zones). I came out of the chat with two ideas. Keep my students active. And get them to generate questions. My mind was buzzing (hey, maybe why I couldn't sleep). But those two ideas activity + questioning = engagement. Around the World (my classroom) Here's the basic review lesson we did. Put vocab words up all over the room. Students go around the room to each word and ask a partner a question. The partner tries to answer. BUT THEN the partner who answered gets to ask another question about the same word. I like this because that second question drives the qu...

Gotta think ahead about how things are going to affect you. That's what the weight loss game is all about. Seriously, one blink-eyed decision can have day-long, week-long, and even longer affects.  So yesterday, I drank a Coke at about 3 PM. 12 hours later the affect finally wore off. That 10 ounces, seriously affected my ability to go to sleep. Today, as soon as I get an opportunity, I'm running out to get a bag of juicy apples. That gets me through the rough spots. I also have to work at not taking myself too seriously on a day like today.  Handling Life (and Middle Schoolers) On 3 Hours of Sleep Have Fun Tell Stories Laugh Listen Get Some Exercise Go Home (earlier than normal) How do you get through days when you aren't feeling your best? Add to my list. 

I'm happy. I did my diet right. Mostly. I did drink half a Coke. Hmm, you wonder. What's the big deal. All on it's own, it's not. It's that one fizzy, sugary soda, feeds my craving. It makes me want one tomorrow. And that all leads to weight gain, not weight loss. The goal here is loss. It's one of the few goals in life in which we wanna lose, not gain. I'm focused on finding 173. I am. I exercised when I got home but dinner is coming. I've done relatively well. I wanna end the day with a win. Dinner can be like a sand trap on the 18th hole for me. Shooting great and then stuck.  I am interested in what you think about all this. Seriously.  So do this. Click on the comments link down there. And add your two cents.  Click and Add Your Comments Getting involved in the conversation helps us both. 

Isn't nice to have a plan to do something to improve your life that you actually follow through with? I did that today. Here's how it worked. If you read yesterday's post, you know that I came up with a plan to make it through the Sunday church feast in such a way that I wouldn't undo all of the hard work from the week.  Here's how it worked. I walked into the community center and fixed my eyes upon the salad. The salad was the target. Then I noticed a huge bowl of fruit at the dessert table. The plan began to form in my mind. The food I need to eat was there. While I was waiting to eat, I drank a full glass of iced herbal tea. BTW, I keep telling myself to do this. I've been trying to start this habit for weeks. I just keep forgetting. So I started to talk about it and write about. Today I remembered! And that's how things often work for me. Keep saying it until you make it happen and it does.  So I grabbed my plate, and skipped the fried offerings....

Mental challenges in the weight loss game can be so interesting. So peculiar to an individual. Here's one I will deal with tomorrow. On a typical school day, I eat lunch around 11. It's a little early, but I don't get to make my own schedule. If I don't eat at 11, I'm waiting until 3 or later.  But on Sunday, I usually eat lunch around 1, two hours later than a normal day for me!  So I'm famished.  Enjoy the Feast and Lose Weight And there is something wonderful before me: a feast. A table laden with wonders. Each Sunday is a different theme. One Sunday it will be Mexican food, on another it will be Italian. You get the idea.  And this is often the best food I've ever tasted. These ladies knock them selves out. I mean it is amazing. I want doubles of everything.  So here comes famished Lieberman with a big old white plate that cries to be filled up. On one end of the table are the entrees, then the sides, and finally the salads, not to mentio...

To lose weight, you must win your fight with sugar. There isn't any diet guru in any system I've ever read that says, "Eat all the sugar you want." So one way that I handle this is that I make rules for myself. Maybe a rule is too strong a word here. I mean more of a benchmark.  Here's one of my sugar benchmarks: no soda. By benchmark, it's an indicator that I'm not getting something my body probably needs: rest, exercise, unprocessed sugar, human interaction... The benchmark tells me that I need to make some changes. I craved soda this week. And last week too.  Craved Soda This Week I get to fifth period class and find that I'm floundering to find the energy to deliver all the way through to 3 o'clock when students get on the bus. So I sneak over to the vending machine and buy a pop.  I usually drink half of it. I didn't do that today (win). Instead, I took some Dr. Christopher Vitalerbs and drank some water. And guess what...

When you are trying to win at weight loss, there are good things that get in your way. The church potluck is one of those for me. I find myself at a potluck feast sometimes three times in a week. And by their very nature, church feasts are not designed to help the weight wary.  Last night was one of these. Long table filled with delights = I eat too many of them. And my scale goes orbital (exaggerating a little). I put too many white things and sweet things on my plate.  I need to go in with a plan.  Here's the plan for next time, probably Sunday: Decided ahead of time to fill half my plate with veggies.  Don't eat white things. Stop after one plate and refill on water or unsweetened tea. That ought to work. What would you do?

One thing I realize, as I try to lose this final fifteen pounds, is that I can get way too focused on the small stuff. It really is about progress, not perfection.  Yesterday I had a plan to go home from work and go on a bike ride with my 7 year old. And guess what, that's what we did.  We had a great time just cruising along for about 45 minutes. We pedaled and poked along. We got some exercise with the wind in our faces. Lots of wins there: fun, exercise, and time with my son. Gotta love it. Dinnertime and beyond: Do you have issues with dinner? I can be great all day long then, poof, all of my resolve blows away like so much mist. And it wasn't a big deal, I ate an extra 200 calories that I didn't need. But still, I would like to figure out how to get past it.  Here's my ideas to get past those mental cravings... Get busy with something.  Get a drink of water. Make a list of good things to do.  Play a game or have a conversation with someone. Ca...

I saw a quote on Twitter a couple of weeks ago. It went something like this: Start the change today that you would like to see 12 weeks from now. After a good start on the weight loss which I have been telling on this blog, I have had some difficult days. Spring break was hard. Easter weekend too.  I am nailed down at 188 right now. If I overindulge on a weekend say, I drift up. But I come right back down in a few days. That's what happened this weekend. But it happens the other way too. If I lose a few, get down to 185, 184, if I don't hold my mouth just right. The weight comes back to 188.  My goal is for 173 to be that number. I might drift up or down from 173, but unless I make a new goal, 173.  But today, my body is very comfortable at 188.  Maybe I'm having difficulty convincing myself that 173 is where I need to be.  It's all so mental.  And blogging about it everyday really feels embarrassing sometimes.  How to get focused o...

Didn't get on the scale this morning. Wasn't ready for that conversation with a piece of metal. Tomorrow. How do you handle the holidays?  I could use some tips. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. If you could fill in the list for me, I would appreciate it. Could use a little perspective and sense of humor. Comments...

A wrench can get thrown into your habits. And that happened to me yesterday. At the last minute, I ended up going on a field trip for the day. No lunch plan.  There came a point at which I made a choice about food. A split second choice, one I had no time to think out. And I chose something with more calories/fat/sugar than I would have had I been carefully selecting. Today, I'm back on my programming. Yes it is programming. Many cringe at the idea of programming themselves. But in fact, that's what habits are: programs. They can be either routines that give us more freedom or less.  For instance, when I was a new teacher, and STRESSED out. I drove through what I called the gauntlet. Doughnut shops, burrito places, the best Mexican food in Los Angeles.  It was about a three mile boulevard (slow traffic) of one place after another.  I went through a period where I stopped every day for a doughnut. And on my way out, ate a burrito or some other...

So I got up and weighed myself this morning. One pound down toward my goal. Three weeks ago, I was at least 5 down. I'm happy to see it go down. But it doesn't count until I see it down for at least 3 days in a row.  Now how can I keep it going? Don't celebrate by eating something "good." Punctuate it by exercising today. Write down progress and struggles. Keep focused on the goal. This is a matter of knowing the target, and staying focused on it. How do you stay on it?  Let me know right now in the comments below.

When we keep at it, the healthy habits return. Yesterday, I wrote.  And I anguished over my bad habits returning like so many pulled weeds: double dinner, Coke, burgers, junk. And yesterday I ate well, meaning green, healthy.  I went home and exercised. Third day in a row. I went to bed at a respectable time. I prevailed (Rocky theme plays in the background)! Why?  Here's how to get your mojo back. Be honest about how you veered from the path. Hey, write about it, maybe even publicly (okay maybe that part is stupid). But write.  Tell yourself what you did well (started writing, got honest about what I was doing, reestablished that I want to weigh 173 relatively soon) Admit what needs to get better   (I have a huge bag a peanuts in my desk--need to pay attention to how many of them I actually eat). Exercise, even if it's only a little bit (10 minutes turns to 30 before you know it). Start off right. You can get back ...